Boot Camp for New Dads     Sat 9 am-noon

 

Classes are filling up fast; register early.      call 288-3431

April 19 at MCV Hospital (VCUHS)  Main Hosp 8 east room 210.   Also 8/16, and 12/20. Sat. 9am-noon.  1250 East Marshall Street          

May 3, 2008 at Johnston Willis Hosp.(Atrium Auditorium).  also 6/14, 10/11 Sat. 9am-noon.  1401 Johnston-Willis Dr.  Atrium Auditorium

May 10 at Henrico Drs. Hospital  Forest Campus Williamsburg Conf. room Sat. 9am-noon. Also:  7/12, 9/6, 11/1.     1602 Skipwith Road at Forest

June 21, 2008 at VCU Medical Center Women's Health Center at Stony Point. Also:  10/18. Sat. 9am-noon.  900 Stony Point Pkwy just off Chippenham Pkwy Rt 150

July 26  Chippenham Hospital  Also  8/30, 11/29 Sat. 9am-noon. 7101 Jahnke Rd just east of Chippenham Pkwy; Main entrance Bosher Auditorium

Classes are filling up fast; register early.

 

Directions to the Hospitals link here

Boot Camp for New Dads is a unique father-to-father, community-based workshop that inspires and equips men to become confidently engaged with their infants, support their mates and personally navigate their transformation into dads.  Veterans (new fathers who bring along their two month old babies) orient rookies (fathers to be) on the joys and realities of fatherhood.   We are Dads helping other men get a good start as New Fathers.     

Parents Magazine Feb 2008: "Most classes focus on Mom, with Dad there for support.  Here's a course that's strictly male - no moms allowed.  In the Boot Camp for New Dads program, veteran dads bring their babies to class to help rookie dads learn burping, changing, and swaddling techniques.  Other topics include:  taking care of Mom after birth, juggling work and family time, and baby bonding.  There's an hour-long discussion at the end so the rookies can ask questions and the veterans can share the lessons they've learned.  "The open conversation helps dads-to-be feel ready to care for their newborn," says Robert Grand, course facilitator for the Boot Camp for New Dads program at St. Joseph's Hospital in Orange, California." 

For all first time expectant dads!   We are getting exceptional feedback from participants from many different backgrounds.:   Awesome said one young professional aged 30.  I wish I had this before I became a dad  said one Veteran who came to share his experience (a local Psychologist also around 30).  I needed this...  a great addition to the parenting classes we attended as a couple.  but, from a man's perspective (a 28 year old carpenter)

     

Rookie holds baby for 1st time while Veteran looks on        New Dads at Henrico Doctors' Hospital

Calling all Veteran Dads link here

Link to download photos from first Boot Camp with 10 Rookies, three Veterans and two babies (small pdf file)

Over the past decades, in programs across the country thousands of dads have worked to help each other get the best start possible.  This is a “guy thing.”  ... ladies get the morning off to be alone or with friends;  for men only.   When men facing a common challenge get together, a locker room feeling of solidarity develops and we talk frankly about our experiences and what’s on our minds.  And with all the changes and stresses involved in becoming a father, information you can trust is essential.

What you will learn:

We face a broad range of new challenges as we work through perhaps the most fundamental transition in our lives.  There is no one  way or right way to do it.  Everyone’s situation is unique and lots of choices need to be made, so we strive to provide a range of perspectives to help you make informed decisions.

We have learned a great deal from each other and would like to share some highlights with you.  Common challenges include:

  • Caring for babies, particularly when they are crying
  • Caring for moms, particularly when they are crying
  • Working your regular 60 hour week on no sleep
  • Financing a Family
  • Following constant barrage of conflicting advice
  • Mothers-in-law
  • Dropping a diaper into the trash can at 40 feet

And more...

Start up funding was provided by the Community Foundation , Anthem, and Dominion.

Suggested donation  $25,                    (Scholarships available upon request)

Space limited;  Register: info@FirstThingsRichmond.org  288-3431 ext 11. 

Leave name, phone , e-mail,  location/date, address, due date and shirt size  (we give you a shirt)

Directions to the Hospitals:

Henrico Doctors Hospital (Williamsburg Conference Room).    Forest Campus: 1602 Skipwith Road at Forest (South off I - 64 Glenside Exit turn left on Forest at first light )  

Johnston Willis 1401 Johnston-Willis Dr.  Take Powhite to West on Midlothian. Turn Right at Johnston Willis Drive (Hospital sign).  Park in Atrium Lot and enter Atrium Entrance.  Atrium Conference room is on Floor 4.

Chippenham Hospital  7101 Jahnke Rd. Take Rte. 150 Chippenham Parkway to Jahnke Rd going east.  Turn into the first hospital entrance and park in the garage.  Enter Main Lobby and Bosher Auditorium in the lobby.

VCU-MCV Stony Point Women's Health Center 900 Stony Point Pkwy. Take Rte. 150 Chippenham Parkway to Stony Point exit and left at light ( north) on Stony Point Parkway. VCU Womens Center is straight ahead.

VCU-MCV  Main Hospital Enter Main Hospital and go up escalator then elevator to Floor 8 east Room 210

 Special thanks to grants from The Community Foundation,  Anthem-Blue Cross-Blue Shield-VA, Dominion and Trinity UMC .     give here for 2008 

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Mail to:   First Things First  (non Profit 501c3)  5200 Grove Ave Richmond, VA 23226-1633   Or e-mail:  info@FirstThingsRichmond.org    (804) 288-3431 x-11 

Calling all Veteran Dads

Boot Camp needs you to come back and orient the new guys!

Give Mom a morning off … you will be appreciated!

We really need you to come help as a Veteran…

Please RSVP by calling:  e-mail info@    FirstThingsRichmond.org   (with no spaces) or call 288-3431

I look forward to seeing you there,  LeMar     (cell 439-1740)

 

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New part time Fatherhood and Urban Programs Coordinator is Mr. LeMar Bowers. Call to schedule as a speaker for your group.

"Hit the Ground Running" a new book for dads and More resources  for fathers at http://www.dadsadventure.com/

Richmond Times Dispatch Front page article June 15:  link here 

Download Henrico Doctors' HospPress release here; 5/22/07 (178 k Word doc)

Link to download photos from first Boot Camp with 10 Rookies, three Veterans and two babies (small pdf file)

link for Boot Camp info from First Things First Chattanooga

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Additional information  www.BCND.org 

Boot Camp for New Dads is a unique father-to-father, community-based workshop that inspires and equips men of all economic levels, ages and cultures to become confidently engaged with their infants, support their mates and personally navigate their transformation into dads. 

Founded in 1990 in California, Boot Camp for New Dads is validated by research and has been named a best practice by many organizations that consider it an exceptional means of supporting dads-to-be and fostering behaviors that greatly benefit children and help prevent a wide range of social ills.  Boot Camp for New Dads has graduated over 150,000 men, making it by far the nation’s largest program for new fathers.  BCND is now offered in 42 states and on U.S. military bases, and is expanding internationally.

Participants in communities with established Boot Camp for New Dads programs report increased confidence in their ability to care for and bond with their baby, to deal with the baby’s  crying, and to understand and care for their partner (the baby’s mother).  While the Boot Camp for New Dads program is designed for all fathers, regardless of marital and economic status, it is achieving very positive outcomes with low income and minority unmarried participants.

Program Components.  The premise of BCND is simple and is validated by research and results: men want to do their best as fathers, are most receptive to support as they become fathers, and learn best from other men already on the job.

In the introductory year of Boot Camp for New Dads in Richmond, First Things First will offer four or five Boot Camp workshops to be held at Henrico County Department of Social Services, Richmond Community Hospital and Henrico Doctors Hospital.  Each workshop will be three hours in length and will be conducted by a trained facilitator-coach who provides not only direct skills training to ten expectant fathers, but also facilitates interaction with the “experienced dads” who attend with their children of 3-9 months of age.  These father-child teams provide hands-on, practical learning opportunities: how to respond to a crying baby or change a diaper or just how to hold and play with your new infant.  Parenting training will also be provided to Henrico County’s existing Fatherhood Group.

To find out more or to register for an upcoming Boot Camp, please call 288-3431 ext 11 

or e-mail to info@    firstthingsrichmond.org  (with no spaces)

Make a donation:  (Operating support still needed; give here)

(Other Future Sites include Richmond Community Hospital and Henrico County Social Services.)

ink for Boot Camp info from First Things First Chattanooga